Expectations of other people's behavior can be a sketchy thing. Having an expectation of someone doing the 'right' thing, requires everyone to agree what the right thing is, and everyone having the ability to follow through with it. Sounds simple, but it isn't. I had my head run over at IRP by Ken Davis back in '85, during a C Prod race. First lap, I was running 2nd and went inside Doug Gere at T8 (or 9 depending on how you count there), and he closed the line and took out my front wheel. Totally my fault, as I went for a hole that I should have known was going to close. I remember diving in, and then nothing until I woke up in the meat wagon on the way to Methodist. When I fell, I slid feet first, and Ken had nowhere to go (from what I heard), and hit me dead center on the top of my helmet. I was unconscious at that point, but others filled in the gaps on what happened. Ken rode over the top of me, broke my nose, separated my right shoulder, broke 8 ribs on the right side, right elbow, right knee, and a vertical hairline fracture on my tib. He fell and was clipped by 4th place, and badly broke his leg (I think his femur). We knew each other well, and neither of us spoke about it till the end of the season. I felt bad for causing the situation, and he felt like he should have been able to avoid me (totally impossible from what I heard). Was I wrong for not apologizing? Probably, but I was mortified at my own stupidity. Should he have apologized for running me over? I didn't think so, but he did. Hopefully he had empathy for me not having the nuts to talk to him about it, and I certainly have empathy for his situation.